On a conscious level almost anybody that you approach will tell you that what they would like to have in their lives is abundance. Abundance of money, of love, of creativity, of health, of success and of positive relationships. Yet in practice not a lot of people manage to attain such abundance. The people who do not attain it often end up resenting those who do for making them feel worse about themselves.
Since we are all vibrational beings, feeling resentment and envy creates an energy of lack and deprivation in our lives. This energy perpetuates itself, and so the cycle continues.
The important thing to understand in such a case is that there is no other person. There is only you and the people who were drawn to you in order to either reflect back at you your own thoughts and deep held beliefs or to guide you towards or away from something.
Once you start becoming successful at seeing the world from this perspective, the resentment melts away. You start to understand that if you are looking at someone else’s abundance, it is likely because you yourself are starting to vibrate in abundance. Essentially you have attracted their abundance into your visual field because your own frequency started resonating with it. The right response would be joy. Joy for knowing that only a few more steps and a little more time, and you yourself could have what that other person is enjoying.
You must let go of your deep held negative beliefs about the things that you want to manifest into your reality. If you want money, then you should not be thinking that being rich is mean. If you want beauty, then you should not be thinking that you are too old to be beautiful. If you want freedom, then you should not feel guilty about being the priority in your own life.
Many people want abundance consciously, but resent its manifestation. Abundance cannot be attracted in such a way. Joy at someone else’s happiness and success on the other hand, will lead to your own happiness and success. As on every level your being will not be resisting the manifestation of the other persons good fortune and will see it as a sign that they themselves are doing something right. Express your gratitude for this manifestation, know that you are not inferior to it in any way. You cannot be less than something that is a part of you. You should not be envious of your own projection. If anything you should try to strengthen it.